sometimes it rlly is just you and ur pudding cup against the world

something so funny about graduating small-town high school is that last week, one of my closest grade school friends got married. we were close for maybe 7ish years. she was always the type to dream about her future wedding, and when she started dating her now-husband (when we were in 7th grade/13 years old), that didn’t slow down. in art class, we would always talk about how i would be her maid of honor, possibly demoted to bridesmaid because her boyfriend has an older sister. like i said, she got married last week. the only reason i know is because i saw photos from our mutual friends on facebook. albums full of our other close friends from school. i never even got an invite. 

yeah that’ll do it

Trying to decorate in The Sims after spending all of your simoleans on new appliances that won't break after 2 days

disabled people deserve more than the bare minimum to live tbh. and i don't mean in the "oh we have extra costs that makes being disabled more expensive" - which is true, but i'm counting those in the budget to live. disabled people also deserve enough money to buy treats, nice clothes, fund their hobbies, take a trip away, and so on. being disabled shouldn't force you into a life of frugality and poverty

Please reblog + put what you identify as and which u choose (if u want)

Utkarsh will go down in history as one of the Guests of All Time. Money moves only. Tells his life story off a notes app and then commences PVP and is almost instantly downed. Prompts a players regression into darkness. Has a shitload of magical items that he apparently never used. Asked Marisha for help when trying to kill them. The first PVP death.

ok. listen. it’s about your girlfriend. you know how we thought she was a crop-blighting witch and we were planning to stone her? so, here’s the thing. every stone we threw drew not blood but like, the black and fathomless rage of a race of titans that were once slain but could not die. and she like, rose from her hastily-shoveled roadside grave as their resubstantiated champion or something. yeah, we’re suffering the onslaught of her vengeance right now. yeah. I guess we inadvertently created that which we had so feared. yeahh. could you like, answer her texts and ask if she’ll stop sloughing our flesh with her baleful gaze every time she sees us. thx in advance

you’re simping. calves are stillborn in the fields, food rots on the plate, holy symbols for miles around are tarnished black, and you’re simping.

Post Holiday Blues -  Jennifer McChristian

Canadian, b.1967 -

Oil on canvas panel ,  11 x 11 in.

All things that you should not have to be rich in order to do

#those things shouldn’t be fucking pipe dreams!

No offense but the internet gives you the most wrong and fucked up idea of helping people because people get mad if you don't care about disasters happening in 72 countries, meanwhile the people in real life that are doing the most good picked one VERY SPECIFIC thing to care about and care about it REALLY HARD

Walks up to a guy working on restoring a native tree species to his downtown "why aren't you posting about grasses in Turkmenistan!"

The internet has taken a whole generation of bright, motivated, passionate young people who care and have big hearts and turned them into paralyzed, shattered wrecks too crushed by the weight of the world's pain to hand a pair of socks to a person in need

“I'll open my door and hesitate for a moment. What you would see is papers and charcoal is papers and charcoal strewn out on the bed that is pristine, because I never use it. But there are sketches on the bed, on a little desk, sketches on the desk. They are crude sketches, someone who isn't used to drawing, but they progress. You can see they've gotten better.”F.R.I.D.A./Christian

Campaign 3 Episode 54: Treacherous Toys

feeling a little bit bitter and jealous rn bc like… i just learned that my cousin (who is 6months older than me and i’ve always felt unreasonably compared to) just moved to california to pursue her film career. and my best friend moved to washington dc to pursue grad school and possibly politics. and friends from high school are moving out of and across state with their partners they made in college. i am genuinely so happy for all of these people, and more i know in recent years that have moved on from this town. but a part of me can’t help but feel inadequate and like i’m not doing enough. because i feel like i’m so close to those same things (moving out, pursuing a career i will enjoy), but it’s just out of reach right now. and i feel like i don’t quite have the resources i need/want to feel comfortable taking a risk on those things. so like… maybe i could be doing those things too, but i’m not taking the extra, scarier step. and that’s what’s making me feel inadequate. 

listen this pride month you should have more sex and have better sex so as a slut and ex-PSO, here's some writing and interviews i've done on sex and sexuality

obviously i've written and continue to write a lot of erotica and smut, but these are all non-fiction bits and pieces exploring sex and sexuality from different angles!

Ringing The Devil’s Doorbell: A Light-Hearted, Practical Guide

Let’s talk sex! Vulvar and vaginal stimulation for fun, pleasure, and profit.

This is a 10k guide delving into the physical make-up of the vulva and vagina, why sensation feels the way it does, and different kinds of sensation you can approach!

It's intended for solo play to be adapted to play with your partner(s) if you want, and while I'm a trans man and there's some specific notes about increased sensation on testosterone, there should be something in here for everybody's vulva!

On Medium

Looking For 🍑🍆💦: A Beginner’s Guide to Grindr for Trans Men

Approaching Grindr and M/M cruising culture as a trans man.

On Patreon / / On Medium.

Tell Me How You Like It: A Beginner’s Guide to Talking Dirty.

How do I dirty talk effectively in the bedroom? How do I start talking when my natural inclination is to remain quiet? What do I say? How do I get over the embarrassment?

On Medium / / On Patreon.

Dirty talk: a deep dive into smut and the art of fantasy by Kish Lal

An article by Kish Lal for DripFeed, where she interviewed several people about dirty talk, including myself, looking at different fantasies, the psychology of dirty talk, and different ways to approach it.

Read on DripFeed

Being A Slut: For Trans MLM

Discussing MLM cruising culture for trans men.

On Tumblr / / On Medium.

Do I have to be masculine to be a top?

Unpacking some feelings of gender in and around sex and sex acts.

On Tumblr / / On Medium.

I Want To Fuck The Monster

2.3k. Monsterfuckery from a trans and disabled perspective.

On Medium / / On Patreon.

The Straight Male Gaze on Pretty Male Gays

How does it feel when straight men want to fuck us? Musings on and response to A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy’s Revenge (1985).

On Medium / / On Patreon.

ok now im kinda curious

Alright your Discord avatar and tumblr avatar are locked in a closet for 7 minutes ala 7 Minutes In Heaven. What happens